3 Reasons Dieting is Slowing Your Weight Loss

by | Oct 19, 2020 | 10 comments


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Hi! I’m Rebecca, a registered dietitian, and I help women learn to balance their hormones to achieve their best weight while enjoying delicious food.  My own struggles with weight loss and dieting have inspired me to help my fellow females learn the truths and misconceptions about cravings, self-care, food, and how to optimize hormone levels so that they can lose weight for good while living their best lives.  


Does it sound odd for a Dietitian to tell you that “dieting” is actually preventing you from reaching your weight loss goals?


Most of the ladies I work with (and I myself!) are recovering professional dieters.  We tried all of the popular diets as they came into fashion.  There were low-carb, low-fat, high-fat, low calorie, juicing, fasting, shakes, etc.  We tried them all.  Sometimes we lost weight during the diet and then gained the weight back when we eventually quit.  Sometimes we would find a way to gain weight on the diet.  But, consistently, no matter what the “diet of the day” was, it never helped us lose weight and keep it off forever.


If that sounds like you too, keep reading.


Here are the top 3 reasons dieting won’t help you lose weight (or at least lose it, and keep it off):


#1: The Diet Isn’t Enjoyable

The number one sign a diet won’t work in the long run is that it isn’t enjoyable.  Many of us tend to think of diets as temporary fixes.  We think that if we can just stick with the horrible diet plan long enough to lose the weight then somehow, magically, we will be able to keep the weight off forever.  The truth is that if we don’t learn how to enjoy a healthier, weight-loss sustaining lifestyle, as soon as we stop the painful diet, our old habits will creep back in and the weight will creep back on.


#2: The Diet Doesn’t Fit into Your Life

Sometimes the diet is enjoyable, but it requires so much time and energy planning meals, shopping for odd ingredients, or food prepping that there’s no way you can stick with it long-term.  Other times it might be a simple plan where you drink shakes or eat food that’s delivered to your house, but maybe you love to eat out with friends and the diet doesn’t allow for a fun social life.  Other times the diet may require you to track every detail of your foods and calculate nutrient percentages and you may not be a tracking kind of person.  For a diet to work long-term it has to fit in with the way you like to live (and eat).


#3: The Diet Doesn’t Work for Your Body

The final problem that I see with so many popular diets is that they simply aren’t good medical advice– especially for women.  Cutting all carbs, fasting for days, high fat plans, very low calorie plans, and so many other popular options out there prey on our desires to lose weight fast, but in the long-run they can actually cause harm to our bodies and lower our metabolisms so when we go back to eating the way we had been before we end up heavier than ever.  Many of these plans cause us to lose water weight so it seems like we are getting slim very quickly, but as soon as we start to eat more normally the weight comes back with a vengeance.  Many plans cause our bodies to use healthy tissue (like muscle) for fuel to survive.  This leaves us with a slower metabolism, so when we stop the diet we end up heavier than ever.  Some plans cut out entire food groups that are not only enjoyable but nourishing (and sometimes necessary) for health.




If diets don’t work, how can we actually lose weight and get healthy?


Find a healthy, weight-loss promoting lifestyle that you love! 


Instead of searching for a diet, why not look to adopt what I like to call a ‘lifestyle plan’? A lifestyle plan should include enough food to keep you full and satisfied with great energy.  It should include your favorite foods and delicious foods to keep you happy.  It should fit into your life so that you don’t have to stress about what to eat and when to eat.  Your lifestyle plan should allow for a fun social life and vacations.  It should feel enjoyable and easy and you should be able to maintain it forever without feeling sad or deprived. 


You can start with simple shifts, like beginning your day with a nourishing breakfast or trying out a healthy dessert recipe.  Figuring out how to cut even 100 calories per day can lead to a 10 pound weight loss over the course of a year.  Another great goal would be to incorporate extra veggies throughout the day.  Whether you’re snacking on carrots, adding peppers to your breakfast scramble, piling lettuce onto your lunch sandwich, or sneaking spinach into your smoothie, veggies fill you up with healthy fiber and tons of hormone-balancing nutrients to help you lose weight while boosting energy so you feel amazing.   


We would love to help you find a healthy lifestyle that you love.  Please let us know if you have any questions about healthy eating or exercise!  We will be creating some question and answer videos for you soon and maybe we’ll highlight your question.

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  1. Arthur

    Thanks for sharing these great tips!

  2. Classyone

    It’s all about balance and getting off that couch! I find that working out in the morning works best for me but I also think working out in the evening works just as well. It prevents bad habits (glasses of wine after work!) and that taking a walk in the evening is a great de-stressor! As far as diets, I don’t believe in them because they never ever work. I try to focus on healthy filling choices 80% of the time and I allow myself to indulge the other 10%. If my jeans start to get a bit tight, I know that I need to eat more veggies etc! Two things I have found that really contribute to weight gain are alcohol and processed sugar. If you cut those out…the weight just falls off…and you’ll feel a lot better!!!!

  3. Francesca

    Yes I too would love some information and foods to help with hormonal changes in premenopause! I tend to eat pretty healthy but for some reason the tire around my lower stomach is creeping in! Yikes!

  4. SherryG

    Great tips! Restricting food groups has never been something I could stick with. To include more veggies, I eat a huge salad for lunch. It also helps me keep my calories down. My biggest problem is going overboard on the sweets, but I’m working on it!

    • Christine A

      I will take this as a sign to not sign up for weight watchers again. I stopped the yo-yo dieting a year ago but find myself feeling unhealthy after months of just eating whatever I want. I love healthy food and know how to eat right and how to be healthy but for some reason if I’m not on a diet I don’t do it. I love Jessica’s workouts and am so looking forward to her new ones. Hoping now I’ll also get advice on how to finally be healthy without restriction.

  5. Thelma

    Your comment is awaiting moderation.
    I have incorporated this kind of lifestyle plan for 5 years and lost and kept off 65 pounds pretty easily. I have about 15 pounds to go and the weight just won’t budge. If I’m already eating healthy and have cut calories what do I do now?

  6. Kathy Patterson

    I have always had trouble losing weight unless I cut my calories drastically. Back in my late 20s, I lost 60 lbs in a few months by eating 700 calories and day and exercising 7 days a week (mostly country line dancing – this was the mid-90s). The calories were completely non-nutritious and involved a lot of diet bread with diet cheese (cardboard with plastic), pretzels, pickles, and the occasional can of zucchini in tomato sauce. I was hungry all the time and passed out frequently. I gave up the diet and eventually the exercise and gained back that 60 pounds plus 40 more. Then I discovered Whole30. Lots of whole foods, fruits and veg, meats, fats, just no grains, added sugars, dairy, or soy, plus a few other seemingly random things. And I started losing weight! Slowly, but with moderate exercise, it was coming off. And I wasn’t starving myself.

    Currently, I do a modified version of the diet. Actually, it’s not Whole30 at all. I eat what I want, essentially, but no wheat at all. Apparently that is what was keeping my metabolism down. I eat a ton of fruit for breakfast, with a protein smoothie, a sensible vegetarian lunch (like a beet salad with goat cheese and grain-free crackers), and whatever I want for dinner (Indian food tonight!). Occasionally I plateau pretty hard, so I have a “cheat month” when I allow myself to eat all the pizza and bread I want. The following few weeks I try to get back to Whole30, but then I start eating dairy and soy again and just keep away from wheat and other grains. This works for me, has led to fairly steady and slow weight loss (50 lbs in 16 months), and I never feel deprived.

    Walking 5 days a week with Jessica has certainly helped a great deal, too!

  7. Jennifer Byrd

    Hello 🙂

    I would be greatly appreciative of any information you can offer on maintaining a healthy weight/managing hormonal imbalances during menopause.

    Thank you 🙂

    • Mia

      Hi Jennifer, for what it’s worth I’m happy to share my experience of losing weight during peri-menopause/menopause, and trying to keep it off. For me, it’s been a combination of almost-daily exercise (I set an achievable goal of 20 minutes, which often turns into more than an hour once I start), cutting down drastically on alcohol, and counting calories whenever my weight starts to creep up again. Sadly it’s a constant battle; as soon as I stop counting calories, a few months down the road I’ve gained weight. I’m short (5 foot 3) which doesn’t help. Neverthelesss, I have managed to stay in the healthy weight zone since 2014. A year ago I went mostly vegan (with ‘days off’) and this has helped reduce some menopausal symptoms like flushes. It’s certainly not a cure-all though; there’s simply no substitute for counting calories and exercising, and drinking very little alcohol. Good luck!!

  8. Sue McCune

    Do you have any good fish recipes? Using cod or talapia?


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